a sad burden...

today i picked out a casket! A CASKET! a casket for someone i love to be put in and put in the ground. A CASKET!!!! A CASKET!!!! i can not wrap my head around that. i have realized that i am an advocate for end of life planning - your family shouldn't have to do this for you - you should do this for them (if you can) and save them from the terribly sad burden of it.